1) Metaphysical Pseudoscience: LOA proponents claim that it is based on scientific theory. It is at best, metaphysical pseudoscience with conclusions based on erroneous, unfounded, and often incorrect assumptions. The list of incorrect scientific information that is suggested by LOA creators is way too long for article (more details check out “Throw Away Your Vision Board book.” Here are a few of their scientific truths.”
2) The Second List: Deal Breakers. It’s now time get clear about what I call the ‘Deal Breakers’.  These are the ‘red lights’ that you want to watch out for when you start meeting people.  This is a smaller list where you identify at least three qualities that if this person were to exhibit, you would not engage in a relationship with them. In other words, the deal would be off.
Not just big, life-altering actions, though. When you believe something, even marginally, you begin to do a thousand little things differently. You talk to people you’d normally avoid. You ask questions you’d have been to shy to ask. You help people you’d normally ignore. You dress a little better. You interact with more confidence. You carry yourself differently.

The Law of Attraction isn’t something you switch on in order to get what you want; it’s in the background all the time. This means learning specific techniques is unlikely to get you the results you want unless you learn how to think differently all the time. A large part of this process is about rejecting and replacing old beliefs, which you can learn how to do in the Manifestation Addendum of my “Origins” book!

The Law of Attraction is among the most popular of the Universal Laws.[3] Advocates of this mind-power paradigm generally combine cognitive reframing techniques with affirmations and creative visualization to replace limiting or self-destructive ("negative") thoughts with more empowered, adaptive ("positive") thoughts. A key component of the philosophy is that in order to effectively change one's negative thinking patterns, one must also "feel" (through creative visualization) that the desired changes have already occurred. This combination of positive thought and positive emotion is believed to allow one to attract positive experiences and opportunities by achieving resonance with the proposed energetic law.[4]


“It isn’t about making money or not making money,” I tell him. “How you feel about yourself and your life will determine your next experience. Are you feeling fulfilled? Are you feeling happy? Do you feel that you have reached a successful place in your career and domestic life? Do you have relationships that are satisfying? Are you growing in your understanding of yourself? Do you believe in yourself and do you believe you are worthy of everything you want?”

Step 4: As you work to manifest your soulmate, the final stage of your journey to attract love involves cultivating patience. Embrace this sense of peace as you accept that the Universe can – and will – give you what you need. Although you’ve been focusing on how to manifest love with a specific person, looking for love through Law of Attraction techniques rests on your ability to trust that the Universe knows exactly what kind of partner can help you manifest love that lasts. Don’t fret about when you’re going to find your soulmate. But rather, rest easy in the knowledge that you will find them at the perfect time.

Take time each day to sit quietly and allow yourself to let go of the chaos of the day as you put your attention on your heart’s desire. Allow yourself to feel what it’s like to be living right now, in this moment, with the love of your life. Ask yourself, “Here in my body do I feel the joy and excitement, the utter knowingness, that I am now connected connected to my soulmate?”  And then, luxuriate and savor those feelings.


The first secret to manifesting any desire is to have absolute clarity on what it exactly is that you want to manifest. The more specific your intention is, the easier it is for the Universe to know what it is you really want and answer your request. Specific desires create specific results, while vague or unclear goals create wishy-washy results. A powerful intention is also one that is a true desire, which stems from deep inside the heart. This desire is one which is totally free from any "shoulds", "need to's and "have to's". It is important that your intention feels empowering and freeing anytime you focus on it, and that the outcome you are projecting is something you can have fun visualizing happening for you. Yet, perhaps the essential key to setting a strong intention is making a declaration to the Universe out loud about what you want to manifest. Speak it as if the entire Universe can hear you, and then know it has been fully received.
Think for a minute of someone who got accidentally pushed into the swimming pool. Naturally to survive, he will have a very strong desire to come out of the water on the surface and breathe again. This desire to stay alive and breathe would be 10 on 10, thus a very strong desire. Similarly your goal to earn or to receive 10,000 dollars per month should also be very high – say 8 or 9 out 10 – at least.

Perhaps you are someone who finds it easier to manifest the things you don't want in your life, rather than the things you do want. This pattern is something that can be easily shifted and reprogrammed. Manifesting is super simple, and just knowing that it is extremely easy to manifest the goodies into your life allows them to come in that much faster. It really depends on whether you are randomly and haphazardly focusing your mind on what you want versus truly harnessing your intention to be resolutely fixated on FEELING your desired outcome in the present. If you are like most people, you may be going through life on auto-pilot and are seldomly aware of the energetic frequencies you are sending out into the world. All it takes is to consciously retrain yourself to be in the here and now. You will begin to easily manifest what you want from a very subtle yet firm shift in your awareness. W e have created four powerful yet simple steps below that will help you to make this inner shift and start manifesting your heart's desires with effortless ease.
When we understand how desire works, and know that it works only when it is persistent, we realize that we have found, not only a great secret, but also a simple explanation for many of the failures in life as well as many of its greatest achievements. And from the facts in the case we conclude that no matter what an individual’s condition or position may be today, if they will decide upon that something better that they want, they may get it, provided their wish for it is as strong as their own life and as large as their own soul.
There are no words to express my appreciation and gratitude to you as you are continually share your knowledge and experience with people with love. Also, the wonderful mastering technique you have in presenting deep and thorough topics and issues in simple words is an amazing characteristic you have. Again, thank you Andrea very much. Peace and love.
Develop a belief in what I call the “reverse paradigm shift”. In other words, go for it before you have all the answers. Those so called negative energies (known as cognitive dissonance) are actually the magical seeds of creation and unlimited possibilities. Your destiny and your abundance will always be preceded by confusion and uncertainty. Ask anyone who’s been on the journey.
I am a firm believer that nothing in your life changes until your mindset does. This book has 5 main tips that are like the sparknotes of how to attract more money. Now I know that most people run away from the idea that attraction makes sense, that you think of what you want and god or the universe or whatever brings you what you want. But the way I see it, training your mind to look for opportunities is the way that the law of attraction really works. Anyhow, this book contains good advice on thinking of money as just a tool, a means to an end, and then doing visualization to get more of it. it works, i know :)
If you choose an amount that feels way out of reach, make it smaller. If the amount you have chosen feels too small and that you will still be wishing you had more money after it comes,  then make it bigger. Most importantly, whatever amount of money you are choosing to have, mean what you say. This is so simple, but this is where most people fall down and the rest of their efforts don’t yield successful results.
Deal-breaker items could include: if the person has some form of alcohol or substance addiction or abuse, if they are married or in another relationship, if they are physically or verbally abusive, and even if they smoke.  For some people, smoking is not a big deal, but for me, I just can’t stand kissing someone after they’ve had a smoke, so I decided to include it in my deal-breaker list.  What are your deal- breakers? All you need is three.
10) Blame Yourself: As the LOA is supposed to be a perfect, universal law, positivity should ALWAYS attract more positivity. The corollary of this is that you alone are completely responsible for any goal that was not successfully achieved, no matter how unrealistic the goal. This assumes that you not only control your thoughts and actions, but also those of everyone around you…and nature. The fact is, that you don’t. Sorry to break that to you.
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Can you see how these sentences are specific but not overbearing with details? I found key things that are important to me—wanting to try new things and travel, being respectful and courteous to me and others, certain forms of love expression—and wrote them down. I let the Universe take it from there, because it’s not my job to figure out the how, when or where. It’s just my job to be ready when my soulmate comes along.
For example, say your dream is to adopt a child. You really want to adopt this child because it will bring you feelings of heroism, unconditional love, and joy. In order to become a vibrational match to having that child, all you have to is start practicing those emotions now! Find the places in your life where you already feel like the hero, you already practice unconditional love and you already find joy. 

Also, don’t be a cynic and don’t be jealous for other happy couples. Be happy that other people found their ideal partners and feel it from the bottom of your heart. Be really happy for them, regardless of how hard this may seem to you. What you put out it will come back! If you radiate love and happiness, that’s exactly what will come back to you!
9) Mindless: To invoke a LOA, you need to live continuously in an unreal future as you anticipate that it will be once you’ve achieved your goal and only visualize a successful outcome. This shows faith in the universe. Thinking about plans, actions, and challenges are discordant and negative so skip the process and focus on the result; live without regard to the present. This is the definition of mindlessness. Being fully aware of and attentive to the here and now is mindfulness and has been shown to produce powerful health and wellness benefits such as greater life satisfaction and happiness.
It would be impossible to publish research in any respectable peer-reviewed psychology journal that was not up to this high standard with concomitant rigorous statistical analyses. These are the standards in psychology. When someone comes up with a new theory in psychology or any other science, for that theory to be of any use, it has to be able to make predictions and those predictions have to be verifiable. If there is no way to disprove a theory, it can explain everything that happens, yet it doesn't predict anything specific that can be tested, it is considered a poor theory.
Let me break down the idea of “control.” Be open to the idea of trying new things and challenging yourself to experience these new things. Let’s say online dating scares you… Well now it’s time to try it, and stop controlling outcomes in your life that feel safe to you but are holding you back. You know they might be things that you need to deal with and face, or aspects in life that you need to try. I am not saying you need to give up control of the things that keep you safe in life. I’m talking about the complete opposite: The ways that you hold yourself back.
Yes it is Dhara. My best suggestion here is to come to love and appreciate your body as is first and foremost, and to focus on the aspects of your physical body you appreciate. We can’t change what we “don’t like,” as focusing on what we “don’t like” causes it to persist. Instead, we focus on what we “do like” and allow our appreciation to cause our body to metamorphous into something we like better. XO, Andrea
If you’re going to manifest your soulmate, it’s vital to first understand why it is that your attempts to find love so often go awry. Everyone’s story of looking for love is slightly different. However, there are often common factors in play that can block you from creating the romance you deserve to have. For example, you may find the following are true of you:

What it is you want in your life? Do you want more success? Do you want to attract a partner? Do you want more financial abundance? Whatever it is you’re yearning for, crystal clear clarity is the secret ingredient to achieving what you desire. This clarity also gives you an understanding about your negative belief system, which are all those beliefs that might be holding you back.
Live in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship.  This wonderful Universe of ours is set up to deliver the people and things we draw to us that our consistent with our personal belief system.  If you don’t believe you will ever find the one, then, guess what… you probably won’t.  So, believing and knowing that your soul mate is out there is the most important part of the formula. Big love is possible for any one of any age if you are willing to become a magnet for love.  Continue to live each day in the knowingness that you already are in a loving, committed relationship as you savor the waiting for your beloved to arrive.
Please be advised in the first place, that it is widely known that we do not manifest from the brain, from the mind alone. Since the brain naturally has a positive and a negative side and that also is nature of thoughts, if our manifestation is successful (and I wish for everyone that it will be) that we are automatically attracting the equal negative side with it.
Law of attraction is a law of nature, like gravity is a law of nature. That means its working all the time – bringing you good and bad stuff, according to your thoughts and beliefs and other inner emotions that we are mostly unaware of. If this person was my client, and many of my clients have said this to me, I would ask a lot of questions. I would ask her about self worth.
Stop looking at the horizons in front of you and feeling overwhelmed. Look at the horizon behind you. It’s just as far and infinite. Think about how far you’ve travelled already. And, allow yourself a small tear of pride. Give yourself a pat on the back for the efforts you’ve made, the roads you’ve travelled. The universe thanks you for being part of this amazing story we’re all creating together.
Decades before the best-seller was published, my father knew the secret of The Secret. He was aware there were people with esoteric knowledge who controlled all the wealth, had all the power, and were specifically excluding him from getting any. He bought the books of his time that promised, like The Secret, to unlock these mysteries. I loved listening to him spin his theories about how things really worked—until either I got too old to believe him anymore, or his spinning took him further and further away from reality. He died with nothing, living under an assumed name.

When you meet as TF there is a soul exchange and that begins a soul transformation within each other and you become different from the male/female charge as you unite as One Soul. You are finally brought back to true sacred Divine Soul Love when you unite with your twin. Your souls are magnetically attracted to each other no matter where you are and nothing will change that reality. There is a strong desire in your soul to unify with them for they amplify you as you become ONE Soul. You become love as a female and light as a male and the two unite as ONE Soul having a soul to soul partnership in a spiritual vibration first of pure Divine Love than there is a physical connection and union as icing on the cake. Before you have dealt with your emotions in your heart and have compassion, then you have opened your higher heart ready to serve the world. Then as soul to soul you amplify unconditional love in your Divine template to live that love as ONE. This is higher than 3D love of a physical connection. Here as twin souls to learn and evolve relationship needed to grow and help ea other with no walls and evolve your soul and open it up to express self better as a Divine Being of Light and Love..


I just wanted everyone to know that this really worked for me… I was in desperate need due to some financial issues… I believe in law of attraction but had never seen this particular manifestation so thought I would give it a try… I grabbed a dollar bill out and smelled it, loved it, thought about how money IS wonderful and all it can bring in my life instead of looking at it in a depressing way… I wrote down how I felt great about money and guess what? 3 days later, I received $1500 from a relative I hadn’t talked to in over a year, my wife and daughter got hired for employment and some items I had been trying to sell, started selling… It was and still is INCREDIBLE! I’m just speechless and overjoyed… My hearts desire came true… Thank you!!! I am very blessed and grateful…
You don’t have to go out on dates with people you’re not interested in, nor try to do something that goes against your own values. Notice what things or people you are consciously or unconsciously drawn to.  You might be lead into amazing, rewarding, or at the very least a growing experience! Be willing to trust that inner voice and be open to the mystery that comes from there.
Holy Smokes! I freaking love this article you’ve shared Gabriel (and everything else on your site might I add!). That last sentence you shared about blessing my beloved and I and knowing that we are already deeply connected on a soul level… Feel it. I believe that stumbling onto this blog of yours is an indication of my commitment to grow and call my beloved man in. Something inside me felt called to have a google around tonight and I got you. Amongst other books and resources I have been working through to grow in the last year and a half, I am deeply resonating with everything I’ve seen on your site and I’ve had a good little look around! I would love to connect. Possibly for some one-on-one coaching and would even love to potentially have you on my podcast and interview you there so you can share all of your wisdom on matters of the heart.
4) No Plan: If the best way for me to achieve my goals is to live as if I’ve already achieved them, then there is no reason to make further plans to do so! Making plans shows the universe that you doubt its ability and lack faith. Doubt is negative and you will then attract more negative and not get your desired item. In the book The Secret, Jack Canfield proposed, “Our job is not to figure out the how.” “…trust that the Universe will figure out how to manifest it.” Studies show that this way of thinking results in greater short term satisfaction, but less motivation and lower chance of achieving goals. Curious that Jack Canfield’s website sells a program to teach you how to make an “Action Plan.”
1) The Soulmate List. The first list is a list of ‘Green Light’ qualities and attributes that you’d like your soulmate to have.  In other words, this is what you want to “get” in a Soulmate.   In this list, you’ll describe all of the physical and non-physical characteristics you envision your soulmate to have. Here you want to include things that will begin to describe the kind of man or woman who would really make your heart sing.
For example, you might try keeping a gratitude journal and regularly jotting down benefits you’ve enjoyed because of money you’ve had. You could write “I’m grateful for the money that allowed me to grow up without worrying about whether food would be on the table” or “I’m always grateful for the money that let me have the amazing experience of _____” and “I feel grateful when I think about the money that has permitted me to sleep safely and comfortably each night.”
From now on, everyday for 2 to 3 minutes and for at least 3 times a day feel in your mind that you have already achieved your goal. Feel it with your 5 senses (Touch, Hear, See, Smell and Taste). For example, you are at Starbucks with someone – see the scenario, smell the coffee, feel the taste of hot coffee which you are sipping from the cup you are holding in your hand, and you can hear the sounds of footsteps and the coffee machine.
I got a distressed call from a client some days back. Her friend had had a session with a kinesiologist, and the kinesiologist had removed an “entity” from her energy field. “My friend’s a mess,” my client told me. “The session was five days ago, but she’s still sick, shaky, and out of it. The experience was really scary. My friend felt like she was being pushed out of her body, and the kinesiologist was thrown across the room.”
Next: I used one of Denise’s awesome techniques from her “Get Rich, Lucky Bitch!” book. It involved pulling out my notebook and writing down ALL my goals. The first thing I wrote down was that I’d like to make $10,000. (Quick side-note: Denise’s book rocks! The techniques she shares are brilliant. I noticed that on the days when I read her book, I somehow magically manifested moolah through channels I’d never accessed before! Yep, just from reading her book. It’s that fierce.)
Life can be very challenging for most of us.  You’re going to have good days, and you’re going to have not so good days.  In fact, many things are going to be out of your control and it’s great to recognize that you’re not always going to be on the top of your game.  Therefore, you need to have some sort of support system in your life so that you can show up fully, especially once you meet your Soulmate. Why? Because bringing all of life’s challenges into one relationship, especially with your romantic partner, will place a very heavy burden on your relationship, not to mention draining the sexual and creative energy from it.  You cannot have that! You need to enlist the support of others and create your own group of amazing, challenging, and supportive friends.
Imagine for a moment that it’s a beautiful winter morning and there’s fresh, pristine snow on the ground.  You walk up to a hill with your sled, and slide down and take your first trip down to the bottom of the hill.  This first time, your course was pretty random, right?  Then, you walk back up to the top of the hill once more and you sled down again. Okay, the odds are that you’re going to hit at least some of the grooves you created the first time that you went down.
9) Finally, learn to fall in love with yourself fully.  The more you learn to fully love and accept yourself, the more you’ll learn to recognize other peoples’ love, too. Begin by loving yourself and accepting yourself just the way you are, with all your quirks and idiosyncrasies (and we all have them).  Work on accepting your weaknesses, your strengths, your limitations, your guilt and insecurities as part of your make-up.

For example, say your dream is to adopt a child. You really want to adopt this child because it will bring you feelings of heroism, unconditional love, and joy. In order to become a vibrational match to having that child, all you have to is start practicing those emotions now! Find the places in your life where you already feel like the hero, you already practice unconditional love and you already find joy. 


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