Do a reality check. Figure out where you are, and be ok with it. When we are ok with everything exactly how it is, we can move forward at quantum speeds. If we try to ‘push away’ or deny what is in fact a reality, (I don’t have money, I wish I had a big house) then we are in a fantasy land – and that won’t attract anything except more fantasies in our head!..
We have so many children growing up in single-parent families, which, must be said, is of course very tough on the parent and worse on the child, and this does not tend to help create a well-adjusted person.   On the other hand, you can also grow up in a family with two, married parents, who parent in a way that is too strict, or with lots of verbal abuse (or worse) and this also causes deep traumas.  It’s all about the quality of parenting, and the effort and knowledge that has been put into it.
What has been coming for you recently regarding your relationships or how you approach your relationships, either socially or romantically? Are you experiencing a shift in your values or a conflict between personal and shared values? Or perhaps this is connected resources, finances, and worth? Have you been having any breakthroughs, and if so, how should you proceed based on that? Do you feel like you need to liberate yourself from a restricting situation?
As a mind-reader, you should try to ATTRACT a different job, since in no way do I have any anger towards anyone with erroneous beliefs. I do feel sorry for you, but this is not anger. This is a free country and free society and you are free to believe anything you desire and free to waste your time as you see fit. You can smoke cigarettes as well. They will harm you and that is your choice. Same as a belief in a LOA.

The Universe/God has an infinite and abundant reservoir of supplies, waiting to be delivered to the ones who sincerely ask for them. It doesn't judge anyone for asking for more, because, you are expected to live your life on this planet to the fullest. It is the limited thinking and the conditioning that we all have been exposed to from childhood which makes us fear the Universe/God; in fact it is not something to be feared at all. It's like the genie from the 'Arabian Nights' - Your wish is its command. Don't be scared. Go ahead ask for everything and anything that you want and believe that you have received them.
The Law of Attraction in the Thought World by William Walker Atkinson - Segment 8. The Universe is governed by Law - one great Law. Its manifestations are multiform. but viewed from the Ultimate there is but one Law. We speak learnedly of the Law of Gravity, but ignore that equally wonderful manifestation, THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IN THE THOUGHT WORLD.
The woman who makes the most sense, Abraham Hicks, was deleted from the Secret. The Secret made no sense until I found her deleted scene. If you go to youtube you can find the clip. The Law of Attraction is spiritual and only the Secret tried to use this flimsy physics thing to convince people. It is not about physics it is about the non physical and the spiritual. It does work. I have had it work and it happened in a way that has no earthly explaination. Its not always consistant and its much deeper than jsut getting something material. It can be life changing and I wouldn’t advise entering into it lightly. Its a spiritual power and it can be dangerous in the wrong hands. I had to back off. It was getting too trippy for me. If I told you the freaky things that started happening to me you would think I was a nut. I’m just going to say its a lot bigger than it seems on the outside.
If you find yourself running up against limiting beliefs such as, “I’m not smart enough,” “I’m too busy,” “I don’t have the proper training,” or “It is going to take too long and be too challenging,” I encourage you to check out chapter 33 of my book, The Success Principles. It includes powerful exercises to help you shift your limiting beliefs into empowering ones.
If you want the universe to work in your favor, you also need to do your part. According to Harry, manifesting the love you want really depends on you and how open you are to receiving it. "Opportunities can occur immediately or it could take some time, this depends on how aware you are," she says. For instance, if your friends keep asking you to go out with them on a Friday night but you keep turning them down, you're limiting your opportunities. Maybe the universe is just waiting for you to say yes so it can introduce you to the love of your life, but you keep saying no. "This phenomenon works like magic," Harry says. "Just make sure your eyes are wide open and you observe everything that goes on." So always be present and be aware of the opportunities the universe throws your way.
The purpose of desire is to inform man what he needs at every particular moment to supply the demands of change and growth in his life; and in promoting that purpose, desire gives expression to its two leading functions. The first of these is to give the forces of the human system something definite to do, and the second is to arouse those forces or faculties that have the natural power to do what is to be done. In exercising its first function, desire not only promotes concentration of action among the forces in man, but also causes those forces to work for the thing that is wanted. Therefore, it is readily understood why the wish, if strong, positive, determined and continuous, will tend to produce the thing wished for.
I have often felt that the derisive dismissal of the “placebo effect” was surreal; good grief, if you can get people to improve their health, even heal cancer, with a placebo effect, then rather than dismissing that (why? because it doesn’t make anybody money??), why aren’t we studying how to deliberately “bring about more of the placebo effect”? That effect proves that the mind has stunning potentials we haven’t got even a small handle on yet.
1) Continue to send out a Soul Call and hold your intention to welcome your Soulmate into your heart.  Connect with your Soulmate at the inner level by visualizing and feeling him/her as if he or she is already in your life.  You can do this by buying them a card, or setting a place for them at your dinner table.  You can also buy a soulmate ring, as a symbol of you holding a special place in your heart for your One.  You may also want to listen to my ‘Soul Call’ guided meditation, especially when you’re feeling disconnected or negative about your love life.
1) The Soulmate List. The first list is a list of ‘Green Light’ qualities and attributes that you’d like your soulmate to have.  In other words, this is what you want to “get” in a Soulmate.   In this list, you’ll describe all of the physical and non-physical characteristics you envision your soulmate to have. Here you want to include things that will begin to describe the kind of man or woman who would really make your heart sing.
The more you can feel like you are living your dreams today, the faster they will manifest in your life. So find small ways to begin living your dreams today. If you dream of finding love, take yourself on solo dates and find ways to compliment yourself. If you dream of having financial abundance, wear your best clothes and take care of your belongings. If you dream of travelling, explore your own city and try new activities. All of these small actions will begin to create a new feeling and vibration inside of you, which will in turn attract opportunities for the fulfilment of your dreams.
You are describing how it is desirable to have the good and bad. Death is good. Aging is good. Disease is good. I don't necessarily disagree with your premise. However, these are not the things that people typically want or desire to fill their lives. When you talk about creation and destruction being natural phenomenon, I agree. But invoking the law of attraction should stop the destruction part if that's what I want to attract. This is irrespective of it being objectively good or bad.
But when was the last time you did something for yourself that was truly indulgent? You don’t have to wait for the guy to show up before you start doing the things that you truly enjoy! Think of this as self care on steroids. It might mean getting a pedicure, booking a weekend away or just going out for a nice glass of wine all on your own. Getting out there and actually doing the things you like is a great way of telling the Universe what you want more of.
Joanne I wasn’t going to speak my mind until I just saw 311 by your name above..I woke up at 4:44am and it is the 4th. I already knew my Angels have been around me because I called for them from God last night.Yesterday I was sending a message and was putting my nickname and the numbers were on instead of letters..311. These numbers have been a significance in mylife also in diff ways and just made me decide to go ahead and post this.I am looking forward to what god will send me next to further me to my success with him being a part of it.Thank You for being the angel you are to confirm I am getting to where I need to be with myself and the direction I’m going.
As soon as I started my day, a boyfriend didnt turn up for our date, I was given a ticket by a policeman for my car tinting being too dark, I saw a text msg that was not meant for me but was about me (another person actually dislikes me) My phone drowned in a cup of coffee, I then used another old phone and the charger was taken off me, then a person that I havent seen for a long time rang me saying he wants to return something that belongs to me that has no value- meaning a great inconvinience for me. All of the above happened in four hours.
Answer: "The Secret" also known as the “law of attraction,” is the idea that because of our connection with a “universal energy force,” our thoughts and feelings have the ability to manipulate this energy force to our liking. According to “The Secret,” our thoughts and feelings attract a corresponding energy to ourselves. If our thoughts are negative, we attract negative things. If our feelings are positive, we attract positive things. The essential message of “The Secret” is that we all have the power to determine our own destiny. We can all create our own reality. Through fully and consistently applying the “law of attraction,” we can be who we want to be and have everything we want to have.
This worked great for weeks, through one of the most frigid springs on record, and I was starting to think that maybe my father was right, maybe people like Byrne really knew how the world worked. Then the weather warmed up and the air was thick with pollen. My eyes swelled, my nose started pouring, and I ended up with a sinus infection and a bag of medications from the otolaryngologist. Of course, one could say The Secret failed. But look at it this way: When I first started imagining myself drip-free, the universe responded by sending a cold snap! Then because I became so blasé about my sinuses, the universe decided to warm things up again. Surely there is a lesson here for Al Gore.

I like to think some people would just know what I’m going through before I even meet them and I think you may be one of them… I have angels that communicate with me from time to time. I have this burning sensation to tell you everything but my angels are warning me not to… but what you have here is a really great foundation of knowledge towards angels and what they are trying to communicate with you… just know that this website has helped me and in the kingdom of god I am the duke so it means a lot… this makes me feel warm to share in my beliefs and it’s crazy that society makes you feel crazy to believe in such things like talking to angels I mean we’ve done it for thousands of years but now that we have tv and the internet we are too smart to believe in fairytales but that’s just it, it’s not a fairytale it’s reality and we don’t have to go across the universe to know if other beings exist… they have been here assisting in the shadows because their presence wouldn’t be fully understood and we would mistake them as gods as we have for thousands of years but they are not gods they are angels and the ones that are here for the most part walk in love and they want nothing more but to see you walk towards god, heaven, and happiness…. for we all are capable of love and eventually that will be what we all strive for… eventually in time we will find peace and with assistance we could all find our way to heaven… to touch the stars we must not dream… we must reach.

Oops .. sorry .. the point I was trying to make is that the LOA as introduced by Haanel is not a lie. Seems like the “Secret” movie made an oversimplification. Throw out the child with the bathwater? The fact that some of the way the message is presented .. or who presents it .. in “The Secret” .. does not invalidate the LOA. In the flat earth world .. some huckster tells you the “world is a sphere” .. and you find the person is a huckster .. that does not invalidate the premise .. or the truth. The world is still round.


The New Thought movement (Law of Attraction Origins) grew out of the teachings of Phineas Quimby in the early 19th century. Early in his life, Quimby was diagnosed with tuberculosis. Unfortunately, medicinal treatment wasn't working, so he began carriage riding through his hometown, Lebanon, New Hampshire. He then regained his health and recovered, an event that prompted his study of "mind over body".[10] Although he never used the words 'Law of Attraction', he explained this in a statement that captured the concept in the field of health:
Wow!!!, people should help me thank the universe for their love for me!!!. Today if one should pop up in my room, the person might say I’m now getting mad. I was just talking alone during meditation as if my request was granted!! and the whole of today was just full of joy for me! this is soo simple. if you don’t believe, please just meditate for me:):):).

This is the primary purpose in uniting and amplifying your vibrations as One. You are moving and expressing yourself as Divine energy as you talk and teach and catch waves of vibrations from your soul and understand what your soul is saying and that is the power when you speak from the soul. You embody Divine powers using your talents given from the higher soul vibrations as they move up inside and flow thru your soul and you are more connected to the cosmos and see fruits of what you do as One. The divine gifts within the soul evolve specific vibrations flowing from divine within you as one. You have embodied your souls as one and have connection with the Divine and Cosmos. Your talents and gifts are empowered by God to be used as his instruments as TF as you move inside your soul with same vibration. You meditate with your soul. The Soul gets charged as the One Soul in its connection to God in the supernal triangle. You can do miracles when you open up your soul and allow it to have its freedom for it has no boundaries and limitations and wants truth in order to live free and not be under any control except Divine flow. You see purpose as souls as you live as Divine Instruments for God’s use knowing you are Divine Beings.
But look, I needed a kitchen floor, and if abandoning sick friends and loved ones was what was required—well, who really enjoys those bedside visits, anyway? We recently renovated our house, and everything went great except our kitchen floor. Remember being told in school that the Holy Roman Empire was neither holy, Roman, nor an empire? My kitchen floor was supposed to be acid-stained concrete. And while it was a floor, it turned out to be neither acid-stained nor concrete. Instead it was made of some sort of epoxy, with a surface that looked as if my dog had fallen into a mud pit and then come inside and rolled all over it. I spent weeks attempting to find an easy, inexpensive way to resurface it. One concrete guy said if he came it to fix it, I'd have to remove all my appliances and baseboards, let him grind down the existing floor and pour a new surface, and pay him $4,000 to do it. Thankfully, he decided the job was too small and troublesome to be worth it. Covering the floor with cork tiles would also require appliance removal and an outlay of about $3,500. And so it went with every alternative.
The secret is utter bullshit, yes indeed. Thank you for saying so. All it is, is a “blame the victim” mentality in reverse and gussied up in pseudoscience and stolen mystic references. The SNL skit in which the oppressed and dying people of Darfur were chastised for not having happy thoughts pretty much said it all. Every person associated with it should be ashamed of themselves.
I like to think some people would just know what I’m going through before I even meet them and I think you may be one of them… I have angels that communicate with me from time to time. I have this burning sensation to tell you everything but my angels are warning me not to… but what you have here is a really great foundation of knowledge towards angels and what they are trying to communicate with you… just know that this website has helped me and in the kingdom of god I am the duke so it means a lot… this makes me feel warm to share in my beliefs and it’s crazy that society makes you feel crazy to believe in such things like talking to angels I mean we’ve done it for thousands of years but now that we have tv and the internet we are too smart to believe in fairytales but that’s just it, it’s not a fairytale it’s reality and we don’t have to go across the universe to know if other beings exist… they have been here assisting in the shadows because their presence wouldn’t be fully understood and we would mistake them as gods as we have for thousands of years but they are not gods they are angels and the ones that are here for the most part walk in love and they want nothing more but to see you walk towards god, heaven, and happiness…. for we all are capable of love and eventually that will be what we all strive for… eventually in time we will find peace and with assistance we could all find our way to heaven… to touch the stars we must not dream… we must reach.
Seriously, the first time I heard of The Secret was on Oprah: After The Show. (Hey, I was flipping through the channels while eating dinner.) The Secret Guy was answering questions and a feeble looking man asked, “but how do you explain or deal with, for example, the war going on right now?” And The Secret Guy said, “That is just it- There is NO war in MY world.” Feeble Man started nodding his head and grinning saying, “Oh, I get it! I get it now!”

Find ways to express more love to everyone in your life.   The Universe is always mirroring back to us our beliefs about our selves and the world.  If we believe the world is a loving and friendly place, then most of the time that will be our experience. But, if we believe the world is a chaotic, stressful and fearful place, then that becomes our reality.  .
Right now, imagine that you have already manifested your desired outcome. How does it feel to have manifested this into your life? The deeper and more authentically you can actually FEEL the excitement and joy of having already manifested your desired object or experience, the easier and faster this manifestation can become a reality. The positive feelings that come from visualizing that your desire has already happened are the fuel that propels this manifestation into physical form. Therefore, keep focusing and holding onto the exciting and empowering feeling of having already manifested what you want for as many consecutive seconds in a row that you can! The longer the timeframe is where you can hold onto the feeling, the faster it will show up in your life. This is truly where miracles will manifest instantly.
If you want to manifest money, you CANNOT believe that money is a power source. Money cannot give you wealth or abundance or happiness. It really can’t give you anything. Money just sits there — all the power comes from you. If you believe that having more money will give you any additional power at all, then you’re actually holding the vibe that says, “I’m too weak to attract money.”

Thank you for this. My friend, Tim Brownson led me to your blog. There really are a number of people out there who are being, and will be, harmed by The Secret. This is not an alarmist point of view. Rather, it is the view of a psychotherapist and author who has heard from many people about how The Secret has reinforced their self-blame for such things as disease (M.S., cancer), for childhood sexual abuse, for rape, for the death of a child, etc. It is important that we speak out about this. Please consider my perspective at http://www.thesecretantidote.com. And please help me distribute “The Antidote.” (The Secret will cost you, but The Antidote is free — on line and free.) Thanks. Thom Rutledge


Remember that there is a difference between sending out a hope that something you'd like to happen will happen and putting in the appropriate effort or planning to ensure that something actually will happen. If you don't believe that something will happen, perhaps you're not willing to plan and work for it. You need a balance of both hope (to inspire) and effort (to achieve) for an outcome to be realized.
Yes it is Dhara. My best suggestion here is to come to love and appreciate your body as is first and foremost, and to focus on the aspects of your physical body you appreciate. We can’t change what we “don’t like,” as focusing on what we “don’t like” causes it to persist. Instead, we focus on what we “do like” and allow our appreciation to cause our body to metamorphous into something we like better. XO, Andrea
Life can be very challenging for most of us.  You’re going to have good days, and you’re going to have not so good days.  In fact, many things are going to be out of your control and it’s great to recognize that you’re not always going to be on the top of your game.  Therefore, you need to have some sort of support system in your life so that you can show up fully, especially once you meet your Soulmate. Why? Because bringing all of life’s challenges into one relationship, especially with your romantic partner, will place a very heavy burden on your relationship, not to mention draining the sexual and creative energy from it.  You cannot have that! You need to enlist the support of others and create your own group of amazing, challenging, and supportive friends.
In a simple example, let’s say you wanted to attract a certain experience into your life, like becoming really rich, but you, at the soul beyond the mind, had a journey set out for yourself where you would learn to detach from money and realize that money does not define who you are or your level of success in life. Then, no matter how hard you might try to attract this into your life, you would notice it not playing out simply because there is a bigger lesson you are trying to learn. You can’t use your mental creative powers to dictate your life as intensely as your own bigger picture that your true self sees.
Expect that the universe is more likely to give you things if you’re already grateful for what it has provided to you. Giving an asked-for birthday gift to someone and barely receiving a thank you, you’d likely avoid providing a second gift. On the other hand, you’d get excited about giving a repeat gift to someone who enthusiastically expressed their appreciation for your gift. Imagine the universe in the same way.
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There are tons of learning materials available on Law of Attraction. There are books, audio programs, video programs and seminars on the Law of Attraction Secrets. Most of them are well intentioned which are helpful to a greater or lesser degree depending on the person using or reading the material. There are however 7 Law of Attraction Secrets that when applied on a regular basis that will absolutely guarantee your Law of Attraction success. Learn these 7 Law of Attraction Secrets and apply them daily and you will drastically observe the difference in how fast you begin attracting everything you want.
It’s time to stop looking in the rearview mirror and finally let go of the past. It’s over. You are now in the process of creating beautiful and empowering new experiences in your life. Here’s the thing to remember: if you re-live your past, you are creating it in your future. It’s time to open your heart to limitless possibilities. Affirmations are extremely helpful too. 
In the book of Joel, the Lord’s advice is in harmony with this practice: “Let the weak say, ‘I am strong.'” (Joel 3:10). It is truly as simple as these seven words form the Bible advise. You want what follows I am to be congruent with your highest self, which is God. Beginning with your inner dialogue, simply change the words that define your concept of yourself.
The Law of Attraction will attract anything that you pay attention to. Stick to the positive and you will attract the positive. Keep thinking about the negative and that is all you will attract. The Law of Attraction does not care whether you want something or not or whether it will be good for you or not. It simple takes your current mood or feeling and goes ahead with it.
This is another easy Law of Attraction money visualization. Simply close your eyes and see money falling all around you. Feel it fall on your head and your shoulders. See it falling everywhere in the room you're in, on your house or apartment, and on your neighborhood. Endless amounts of money are just falling down all around you. Money comes to you so easily.

So who is your Soulmate?  What does he or she look like? What are their qualities? What is it that makes them unique and attractive to you? For many of us, this journey towards our Soulmate begins by first experiencing what we do not want. Funny how life works, isn’t it? If you have been, or currently find yourself, in a relationship where you find that things are not flowing, it feels like it’s too much work, you argue and fight a lot, you don’t feel like you are compatible or complement each other, the passion is long gone, you constantly feel anxious about the relationship and you’re struggling to be happy, instead of feeling stronger, supported and inspired you feel weakened, or the person is in another relationship and not available to you, chances are that you’re not with your soulmate.
There is no exact timeline but what I can tell you is that the timeline is up to you! If you would like guidance on how to become more deeply connected to manifestation then I invite you to reach out to me here. Also, if deeper work is calling out to you please visit my workshop here to start manifesting your love life right now. If you have comments or questions I always love hearing from you. Please comment below and I will try my best to personally reply!
So, what is The Secret? The Secret’s history is rooted in both the book and the movies. The success of the book and movie series really began with the documentary film. In 2006, Rhonda Byrne and the other makers of The Secret Documentary interviewed the world’s most accomplished Law of Attraction teachers, with all of them exploring the question “What is the Law of Attraction?”.
At this point I should add that The Secret is not only drivel—it's pernicious drivel. The obvious question that arises from its claim that it's easy to get what you want, is: Why do so many people get what they don't want? As Byrne writes, "Imperfect thoughts are the cause of all humanity's ills, including disease, poverty, and unhappiness." Yes, according to The Secret, people don't just randomly end up being massacred, for example. They are in the wrong place because of their own lousy thinking. Cancer patients have long been victims of this school of belief. But The Secret takes it to a new and more repulsive level with its advice not just to blame people for their illness, but to shun them, lest you start being infected by their bummer thoughts, too.
Even though there is an ever-increasing body of evidence supporting the Law of Attraction, this information hasn’t yet been disseminated very effectively. In fact, this is deliberate in some cases. For example, Law of Attraction techniques have been used by millionaires and other highly successful people for a long time, but they often chose to keep this important knowledge to themselves.

Think of yourself as a consciousness being played out by God just as a wave is part of the ocean that is being played out by the ocean. This theory of nature will promote the kind of trust that you need to attract to yourself all that belongs to you in the universe. You cannot receive it or even come close to manifesting it if you have an absence of trust in yourself as an extension of God.
Before creating CE I worked in finance for a short period of time. I was using the LOA to attract money into my life so I could one day impact the world and become rich within a certain company. I had several deals on the table that were all on the edge of closing and making me a very large sum of money, but suddenly they all fell through. At the time it was frustrating that this would happen, but my soul and life had a very different path. I ended up leaving finance shortly after, as my personal journey was unfolding quickly. CE got started and became what I do full-time. Now, I have the money I require to live and am able to do projects that impact the world, but it’s all coming through a very different avenue than in my past.
Most people find their lives completely out of order. It’s not that they don’t want better. It’s because they really don’t know what it is they truly want. They have not taken the time to find clarity in the vision for their lives. Instead of making each moment of their day intentional, they just go with the flow and hope for the best. These are the people who wind up regretting years of their lives because they finally realize that they could have had more.

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