hello well I stumbled on this this morning and having money issues is just what Im going thru right now. When I read this I immediatly jumped up and found a note and started smelling it and thinking about all the reasons I think and know why its so beautiful. So I waiting for my abundant money flow to start flowing in. Im so excited woooohhoooooooo
Thank you for this. My friend, Tim Brownson led me to your blog. There really are a number of people out there who are being, and will be, harmed by The Secret. This is not an alarmist point of view. Rather, it is the view of a psychotherapist and author who has heard from many people about how The Secret has reinforced their self-blame for such things as disease (M.S., cancer), for childhood sexual abuse, for rape, for the death of a child, etc. It is important that we speak out about this. Please consider my perspective at http://www.thesecretantidote.com. And please help me distribute “The Antidote.” (The Secret will cost you, but The Antidote is free — on line and free.) Thanks. Thom Rutledge
The concept of manifestation is something you might have heard of in relation to the Law of Attraction. For instance, you can learn how to manifest love using the Law of Attraction, meaning, if you focus on something you want, surround it with positive energy, and truly believe it will happen, it will come into your life. Having the ability to manifest something amazing and huge like having "The One" finally enter your life may seem kind of out there. But according to psychics and experts, manifesting the love you want is very possible and surprisingly simple.
Finally, make the final decision what this person is like, and decide that from now on, you’ll do everything you can to be with this wonderful soul mate of yours. It all starts without a decision – without it, you’re lost in life and you’ll give up on the first obstacle! But once you make a firm decision that YES, this is what I want and I am going to GET IT, then you set the most powerful forces in the Universe to do your bidding – even though you’re not aware of what you’re actually doing!
To get into the habit of creating easily and effortlessly, one thing you can do is start to take advantage of “wish opportunities” like shooting stars and wishing wells. The nice thing about “wish opportunities” is that they are quick and we don’t spend too much effort on them. We just put them out there and move on about our day, and this is really how the Law of Attraction works best.
You've probably heard how gratitude can help you feel more positive about your life and relationships. So it shouldn't come as a surprise that being being grateful and giving thanks can help attract your ideal partner to you. "Give thanks for all of the little signs that your ideal partner is getting closer and closer," Christie says. "Gratitude is one of the highest vibrating emotions we can connect to. When we feel gratitude for all that we do have already in our lives, our desires can flow to us much faster." Spending a few minutes each day writing in a gratitude journal is one really easy way to keep you on track.
We all make a conscious choice to have what we want. If you are not sure what it is that you really want, take a moment to imagine yourself having or achieving it already. How does it make you feel? If you can’t picture or feel what its’ like, then maybe you are not ready for it, or don’t really want it that much after all. Perhaps you may even think that you can’t have it or don’t deserve it for some reason.
This is when we begin the search. Most of the times, it is intensively excruciating and disappointing. We may get in relationships that turn out not to be what we expected. We get disappointed and discouraged, and we are deeply mad not only on our partner, but to the whole opposite sex in general. Some people close themselves completely and are not able to attract ANYONE into their love – they become lonely…
The preparation for welcoming your soul mate requires that you make a conscious commitment to start healing the deepest wounds of your heart. Notice that I said “start” healing the deepest wounds of your heart, because for the majority of us, this is a lifelong process and it doesn’t mean you have to be fully healed to manifest your One. In fact, one of the things that a soul mate will do is HELP you to heal your deepest emotional wounds, and chances are you’ll be helping them heal their deepest emotional wounds as well. BUT you must be willing to clear out all of the past hurts, anger, resentments, and anything else that makes up the thick wall of protection and distrust that you have built around your heart so that you can start welcoming love in.
Do a reality check. Figure out where you are, and be ok with it. When we are ok with everything exactly how it is, we can move forward at quantum speeds. If we try to ‘push away’ or deny what is in fact a reality, (I don’t have money, I wish I had a big house) then we are in a fantasy land – and that won’t attract anything except more fantasies in our head!..
If you want the universe to deliver your ideal partner, Pam Thomas, Chief Change Officer and Intuitive at What’s Within U, tells Bustle, you need to be really clear and specific on what kind of person you wish to attract. "It’s like going into a restaurant and placing an order," she says. "If you say to the waiter, 'I’ll have a meat dish with a side of vegetables,' you're leaving yourself wide open to being served cow tongue with a side of creamed spinach." Unless you're into that sort of thing, you probably won't be happy with what you get. So be specific. Ask yourself what your ideal partner and relationship really looks like to you.
Take your attention off the thing that is upsetting you and replace it with a more pleasant thought. Even though it’s easier to focus on negative thoughts, they don’t bring you what you want. If a thought is upsetting you, replace it with a thought that feels better. This new thought will create momentum in the direction of what you desire. The new thought doesn’t have to be on the same topic; it just has to be a better thought. The goal is to raise your vibration with your thinking. A higher vibration will always yield a higher outcome in every area of your life.
The best way to explain this is by giving you an example. Think about when you say things like, “ I am getting older and I will never have kids.” Though this is a valid concern and I am not dismissing it, you are only putting additional pressure on yourself. That pressure turns into fear and that fear turns into a lack of something. This has to disappear and you have to trust. Another example is dating someone and not being honest about what you really want. You may be feeling a lack of self-worth. Not being able to stand up and say “ I want a relationship” may make you attract unavailable men/women, or men/women that are too needy. It is a mirror of where you are right in that moment. Here is where you must become aware and change these things.
How does soulmate love feel to you? What goes on in your brain or your chest or your belly when you see that person? Joyful, excited, relieved, secure, happy, anticipatory or content? Feel the feelings, imagine the conversations you’ll have and fake it till you make it. It’s better to ‘live as if’ rather than focus on the lack of the relationship. “It’s been x months/years and it still hasn’t happened” is living in insufficiency and that’s hardly what you want. Don’t live in the reality of what’s missing, you don’t get love by focusing on the love you don’t have—live as if you’ve already found your soulmate and share the love you have in your soul with everyone!
But, as stated before, and it cannot be repeated too often, the desire must be persistent and strong, as strong as all the life and soul we possess. In other words, we must wish hard enough, and we wish hard enough when our desires are sufficiently full and deep and strong to thoroughly arouse those faculties that have the natural ability to fulfill those desires. Many desires are only strong enough to arouse their corresponding faculties to a slight degree -- not enough to increase the activity or working capacity of these faculties, while most desires are too weak to arouse any force or faculty in the least. The act of wishing hard enough, however, does not imply hard mental work. If you make hard work of your wishing, you will use up your energy instead of turning it into those channels where it can be applied to good account. It is depth of desire and fullness of desire combined in an action that is directed continuously upon the one thing desired that constitutes true desire. To wish hard enough is simply to wish for all that you want with all that is in you. But we cannot wish with all that is in us unless our wish is subconscious as well as conscious because the subconscious is a part of us – the larger part of us.
If you’re serious about growing yourself into becoming the kind of person that you want to attract, then I recommend that you cultivate a network of therapists, counselors, coaches, healing professionals, trusted friends and mentors whom you can count on for any variety of challenge that will arise. Especially when the big stuff starts coming up, and it will!
To further simplify things, here is another important note about the law of attraction. The universal term is the law of attraction. This means like attracts like. In simpler terms, what you give out, you receive back. This means your thoughts, emotions, feelings, actions, and beliefs. The key to all of this is awareness. You create your life with your thoughts and your feelings. You are a magnet!
When Mark Victor Hansen and I published our first Chicken Soup for the Soul book, we were so overwhelmed with possibilities for making the book a bestseller, we weren’t sure which ideas to pursue first. A wonderful teacher, Ron Scolastico, shared a powerful piece of wisdom with us: “If you would go every day to a very large tree and take five swings at it with a very sharp axe, no matter how large the tree, it would have to come down!”
I wish to let the guy I see on the bus every day to work that I know that he is my soulmate. Everytime I look at him, he turns away, probably thinking I am not interested. I am as shy as he is and he is just looking and too shy to say hi to me. I have noticed him looking my way since April 2016. Please attract the guy I see every day on the bus. Help me find a way to smile and to say hi to me or to send me a message – We work right across each other’s jobs Please send me a sign. Amen
It is impossible for anyone that must deal daily with a crippling disease to not be constantly reminded of the effects. Consquently there would never be a time that their energies as defined in the secret would be 100% positive. Then according to the secret their chances of uncommon success at the uncommon hour would be slim to none. I think Lance missed that part.
Katherine Hurst used to live a normal life until something happened that changed her life forever. She discovered the Law of Attraction and began a new, life-changing chapter. She now runs the world's largest Law of Attraction community with millions of followers. Her mission is to share her own experiences to inspire change and happiness in the lives of all.
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