I used to do a lot of work helping people to stop smoking. There are only 2 reasons people don’t stop smoking. One, because they don’t want to (often this is subconscious) Two, because they don’t believe it’s possible. Or they assume it will be incredibly difficult and painful, and they can’t do it without suffering forever. (Again, this is often subconscious and it is a flawed assumption).
Given my skepticism, how could I make myself believe in The Secret enough to give it a fair test? To quote one of The Secret's avatars, Ralph Waldo Emerson, "A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds." Clearly, The Secret is drivel, but why should that stop me from sincerely throwing myself into seeing if it worked? I am already deeply susceptible to superstition and seeing signs—if I find a penny (faceup only), I pick it up knowing something good will happen to me. As self-absorbed as I already am, I loved the permission the book gave to sink deeper into a Jacuzzi of megalomania. As The Secret points out: "You are the master of the Universe. You are the heir to the kingdom. You are the perfection of Life." Just as I'd always suspected!
I’ve been broke before – and I mean REALLY broke. My lowest point was when I just had around 70 cents (yes, cents) in my purse in order to feed my children for a couple of days. I remember walking around the supermarket wondering how the hell I would make it to the next welfare pay day. I purchased a no-name bag of plain pasta and the kids could eat it for dinner and lunch with some tomato sauce I had in the cupboard. The pain was so embarrassing that I struck a deal with the Universe that I would never allow myself to go there again.
As I am starting to receive many emails regarding this article, realize that I may not be able to answer all of the comments. In addition, if you are close-minded and believe that the LOA exists irrespective of data or information to the contrary, then this article is not for you. Thanks for visiting - now you can go back to your LOA abundance. This article is intended for those who are new to the LOA, those who don't know about it, and those who have not succeeded in using it and are open-minded and looking for answers.
Perhaps you are someone who finds it easier to manifest the things you don't want in your life, rather than the things you do want. This pattern is something that can be easily shifted and reprogrammed. Manifesting is super simple, and just knowing that it is extremely easy to manifest the goodies into your life allows them to come in that much faster. It really depends on whether you are randomly and haphazardly focusing your mind on what you want versus truly harnessing your intention to be resolutely fixated on FEELING your desired outcome in the present. If you are like most people, you may be going through life on auto-pilot and are seldomly aware of the energetic frequencies you are sending out into the world. All it takes is to consciously retrain yourself to be in the here and now. You will begin to easily manifest what you want from a very subtle yet firm shift in your awareness. W e have created four powerful yet simple steps below that will help you to make this inner shift and start manifesting your heart's desires with effortless ease.

According to Feng Shui experts, the far right corner of your bedroom is considered the relationship area.  To enliven this space, create a sacred altar.  Items can include fresh flowers, a pair of pink or red candles,a pair of small  swans of other animal that mates for life,  romantic photographs, icons, or statues that represent to you the image of love and family. You may also want to hang your “vision map” above your altar.  Find time each day to spend a few minutes sitting in front of your altar saying a prayer of gratitude for your beloved’s swift arrival.


You may not realize it but resenting someone or being unwilling to forgive them actually binds you to them. Make a list of the ex-lovers with whom you are still harboring grudges or resentment.  Write each a detailed letter expressing your upset.  Give yourself permission to go full out as you will never mail these letters.  Then, write a second letter – this time from your ex-loves point of view. Then read all the letters out loud to your self with the intention of allowing any remaining animosity to dissipate. When we heal the scars of our pasts we open the door to a more fulfilling future.


You are one of a kind and you have a unique spiritual fingerprint. A unique abundance DNA. The universe just wants you to recognize and own your uniqueness. Then you can have anything you want because you’ll stop doing things the way you think you should. You’ll know without blinking that you’re the best in the world at being you. And that’s more than enough to attract an extraordinary and abundant life for you and for those you love.
But till then I’ll continue to feel disgust towards such people who say they have had spiritual experiences and live on another spiritual plain and then come down and offer a course to us mortal humans that will change our life for just $35 per month. If someone is really enlightened he would spread his message for free because that would be the spiritual thing to do. Can you imagine Buddha or Jesus starting a course on spirituality for $35 per month!
The power of desire not only tends to arouse added life and power in these faculties upon which it may act, but it also tends to make the mind as a whole more alert and wide-awake along those lines. This is well illustrated by the fact that when we have a strong, continuous desire for information on a certain subject, we always find someone or something that can give us that information. And the reason is that all the faculties of the mind are prompted by the force of this desire to be constantly on the look-out for that information. That the same law will apply in the desire or search for wisdom, new ideas, better plans, better opportunities, more agreeable environments and more ideal companions, is clearly understood. And when we couple this fact with the fact that the power of desire tends to increase the life, the ability, the working capacity and the efficiency of these faculties or forces that can produce what we desire, we must certainly admit that those who have found the secret of using desire have made a great find indeed.  
There was an inherent truth on this knowledge, unfortunately not everyone who claims to know or understand this truth really does. An based on your original post you investigated in the wrong places. These sources you mentioned were just means to get this current going but they are not definitely the absolute source of truth. Investigate a bit further and try to understand when you find it with an open mind.
I got heart broken a couple of years ago and i lost myself afterwards.. a year later I went into a random place and met this girl.. i felt like she’s calling me since the first moment I saw her.. i was on vacation by the beach.. I avoided her for the day but somehow we started talking and spent 3 days awake talking to each other’s.. then I left to my hometown without any contacts.. but she did her research reached out to me and asked me out.. I pushed her back but she insisted.. I didn’t want to be heart broken again.. then we became together for a couple of months.. the best relationship i’ve ever been into.. I felt full and happy.. I felt I found my soulmate.. I counted her in my blessings every night.. yet after 4 months she started to distance herself bit by bit.. then she broke up with me.. days later she called me back and asks to meet.. we spent 4 months talking every couple of days.. I stared feeling down and afraid I loose her.. she dated someone and she broke up.. came back to me for a couple of days as friends ( we also made love ) then a week later she goes back to the guy asks me not to approach her again and told me she doesn’t love me anymore and that she loves the guy she’s with.. now i’m Heartbroken and depressed.. I feel lonely, used and hurt.. I blame myself that I might be the reason of the negative energy that drove her away.. if i think about it I should not be with such a person.. yet I still love her and i would do anything to win her back..
One of my clients came into our meeting one day, with a big smile, and said, “I have a new husband!” I had just seen her two weeks before and I knew she wasn’t divorcing, although she was unhappy. So I asked, “What’s up?” And she explained that she had taken my suggestion to begin to appreciate her husband. She thought about what she loved about him, she appreciated the little things he did and she remembered why she married him. She changed her vibration to see him as someone she loved rather than someone who annoyed her. As she focused on those things, those became the things she saw the most in him. The way to fix a relationship is to focus on feeling the feelings we want to have in that relationship. Then we change our expectation and our point of attraction.
While everyone is drawn to learning about the Law of Attraction for a subtly different reason, a desire to attract more money is probably one of the most common motivations. It is shortly followed by manifesting love, or a developing a fantastic new career. However, if your motivations are financial, you might well find yourself asking the following: is it really possible to manifest money?
Although the Law of Attraction is a very simple process, many of us still struggle to manifest the things we really want.  This is because we’ve often adopted behaviors and beliefs over the years that are not harmonious with conscious creation.  To help make things easier, here are a few quick secrets to the Law of Attraction many people either don’t know, or forget to keep in mind on a regular basis. 
It is important to realize that by connecting with the feeling of space between thoughts, we contact and merge into what we most want to feel: Love. Connecting with love empowers us to change thoughts and feelings and create pure intentions. And this love is found INSIDE us. In our hearts…..between thoughts. On one level, we do choose our thoughts. When we are conscious, we can entertain thoughts, ideas, and feelings that empower and uplift us.
Now, suppose that you begin to get clear about the kind of person that your soulmate is.  And you decide he or she is Abundant, Affectionate, Ambitious, Beautiful, Caring, Charismatic, Considerate, Creative, and so forth. Now, imagine that this person – who possess all of these wonderful qualities – was simultaneously looking back at you and secretly seeing you the way that you are right now, do you think that they would be proud of what they were seeing?  Would they be interested in hanging out with you, in dating you?  Chances are, the answer is no.
I am with you on the “Law” term and its validity, but also agree that the end result is what it is. Harkening back to days of Jesus and far before great sages have pointed out that which we can sort of innately feel to be true, that what we think about expands. I think few people would argue with that. Now, the explanation of “why” this is true, I agree is still an open debate with elements of both spiritual and neurological discussion. But for me, it doesn’t matter. Its almost like common sense that I what I think about expands, and so, I spend effort conditioning myself to think about what I want, what I’m grateful for, and changing my thoughts when I catch them harboring on something I don’t want. And that really works for me, for whatever reason…
But as Byrne so amply proves, the universe loves people who sound like morons. Deanne finally got back to us, said she could do it, and that she would charge us $912. We now have a gorgeous, glowing floor. And I had to admit just sitting back and letting my desires manifest freed up a lot of time—and was much more relaxing than trying to take care of things myself.
Arielle: Living as if means stepping outside of your current reality and stepping into the reality you wish to be true. It’s when your daily actions reflect and are congruent with your belief that your soul mate exists and is already yours. The best example of this was revealed to me by a famous actress. Once she became clear that she was ready to share her life with someone, she began living as if that person were already a part of her life. She would play music she imagined he would enjoy; she wore pretty nightgowns to bed instead of her typical T-shirt and sweats. Every morning she would feel that they were waking up and starting their day together, and every night at dinner she would light candles and set a place for him at the table. According to this actress, he eventually arrived. She sent a clear message to the Universe, and the Universe delivered. Now you may not be willing to set a table for two each night when you have dinner, but start to consider what you could do to generate the feeling that you are already sharing your life with your beloved. For example, buy tickets to a concert or play that is several months away, holding the intention that you will attend it with a hot date. Or the next time you are shopping for greeting cards, pick up a couple that would be fitting to give to your beloved on a birthday or to celebrate your anniversary, knowing that sometime soon that day will be here.
Again, this should be a general plan like: finish my website in 3 months from now. Until the end of the year, I should have 5 Websites live, generating income. For the upcoming weeks it could be tasks like: 1th week – perform a market research, 2&3th week – write 20 articles, 4th week – buy hosting and design the website, 5th week – put the site live and so on and so on. 
When you read about the Law of Attraction, it can sometimes feel like it will take months or years to manifest anything you desire. However, experts advise that if you carefully work your way through four distinct steps, it’s possible to get results a lot more quickly. In fact, if you are wondering how to manifest anything in simply 24 hours, you may only need 5 steps.

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